

1. Go to PUB and join the big brothers for drink and watch shares trading report. If I am there of course, I can get some very good tips and make some coffee money on stock market next week. If I don't go, I may not get invite again, and I will not get good tips for making money in stock again.


2. Join my friends to watch soccer Singapore versus Vietnam. If I am there I can bond with my Malay and Indian friends. If I am in trouble especially with their own race, I can count on them. If I don't go, people may think I am racist; any problems in Malaysia or in Indonesia, they will not answer my call


3. Go Christmas dinner with my family. If I am at the dinner, my wife, sisters will of course talk to me and share with me it recent moments. If I am not at the dinner, I won't know what problems they may have.
This is a genuine and serious predicament.

